All good and fine, but the problem doesn't start with "yelling out loud".
Most here giving advices are likely to just have the same problem, thinking that they are calm and everything simply because they won't start yelling at somebody/the screen/etc. if sth. bad happens.
"Yelling" is not a state of mind, it's the representation of one.
Not yelling at your mate for example because he messed up somewhere, doesn't mean you aren't angry at him for doing so, subconsciously resenting him eventually.
You wanna fix that problem? Well, good luck with that.
LoL is a pure competetive game, it doesn't work without "hate" at some point.
It's the little difference not to be ruled by it, dwindling into either anger or becoming one of those arrogant smart****s who gave "GG easy" a bad aftertaste.
And yeah, I'm also one of the "angry" guys.
Simply because I hate to see a good fight get messed up by somebody failing at the most simple stuff he could have done right with things like logic and common sense.
Most here giving advices are likely to just have the same problem, thinking that they are calm and everything simply because they won't start yelling at somebody/the screen/etc. if sth. bad happens.
"Yelling" is not a state of mind, it's the representation of one.
Not yelling at your mate for example because he messed up somewhere, doesn't mean you aren't angry at him for doing so, subconsciously resenting him eventually.
You wanna fix that problem? Well, good luck with that.
LoL is a pure competetive game, it doesn't work without "hate" at some point.
It's the little difference not to be ruled by it, dwindling into either anger or becoming one of those arrogant smart****s who gave "GG easy" a bad aftertaste.
And yeah, I'm also one of the "angry" guys.
Simply because I hate to see a good fight get messed up by somebody failing at the most simple stuff he could have done right with things like logic and common sense.
Darcurse is actually right here. As one of those angry guys I tend to rage a lot. I used to be very calm and not even get mad at anything, but lately I've just been pissed off at everything. I blame stress. And I can honestly say nothing helps. It's in their head. The anger itself needs to be fixed. If you can't do that then tell her to shut the **** up, because not telling her to shut the **** up hasn't been working.
Updates on my experiment:
Well, the saturday she blew up, at least it was just a "friendly" protect the soraka game between just friends but she was awful that whole game for reasons unknown.
We had played like three games before with no problem whatsoever and she felt happy. but suddenly when we played protect the soraka she got so frustrated and yelled a lot for killing her and her soraka bot.
In protect the soraka you surrender when soraka is killed 10 times, well she raised the bar to 25 by going "five more! five more!" and then went and even after the 26th kill she destroyed our towers and nexus which is nowhere near the point of the game we were playing... anyways, next time this shows up I'm going to have my whole friends intervene because that was really really too much. :/
since then just a little negative behavior has been spotted, mostly towards me... for reasons unknown too, but I guess at ARAM everyone becomes heated up.
Well, the saturday she blew up, at least it was just a "friendly" protect the soraka game between just friends but she was awful that whole game for reasons unknown.
We had played like three games before with no problem whatsoever and she felt happy. but suddenly when we played protect the soraka she got so frustrated and yelled a lot for killing her and her soraka bot.
In protect the soraka you surrender when soraka is killed 10 times, well she raised the bar to 25 by going "five more! five more!" and then went and even after the 26th kill she destroyed our towers and nexus which is nowhere near the point of the game we were playing... anyways, next time this shows up I'm going to have my whole friends intervene because that was really really too much. :/
since then just a little negative behavior has been spotted, mostly towards me... for reasons unknown too, but I guess at ARAM everyone becomes heated up.
Att'n Dliger
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