Views: 1673 GAH, WHY? Why is everyone asking me this question?!?!
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):< My boyfriend and I's three year anniversary is coming up in January. 98% of my friends are married and have kids already. They keep asking me when my boyfriend and I are going to get married and have kids. I even have family members asking now. They think it's silly of me to want to wait until I have lived on my own for a year or two. That I won't have enough time to get married and have kids. You know what, it's MY life. If I don't want to get married that's my choice. I'm so tired of it. Stop asking. I'm only 20,I'll be 21 in six months. In my opinion, I'm still too immature and young to get married. Yes, I am fine not being married for another 8-10 years. I'm so tired of this pressure. You know what I think about getting married right now?

I know it's a stupid thing to be ranting about,but you know what I'm so tired of feeling this kind of pressure from my friends and some of my family. My mom is one of the few who doesn't want me to have kids or be married right now. To be honest, I don't even want to be proposed to until after I have BA.
My rant is over :D

I know it's a stupid thing to be ranting about,but you know what I'm so tired of feeling this kind of pressure from my friends and some of my family. My mom is one of the few who doesn't want me to have kids or be married right now. To be honest, I don't even want to be proposed to until after I have BA.
My rant is over :D
hey that's sexist
hey stop necroing and go back to ur xlrz or wateva she/he is
hey that's sexist
Honestly, I'm scared of divorce.
Easy fix to both of these: Don't get married LOL. From what you're telling us it seems like everybody around you feels like Marriage is something necessary but it really isn't...
My view on Marriage is soooo negative so I'm just gonna stay quiet :3.
keep making cool art and it's k :D
Don't get married at all o.o
Is that an awkward statement or something? Marriage is fairly rare from where I come ._.
XD Honestly, I'm scared of divorce. If I am going to marry it's only going to be once. I think marriage can be a beautiful thing. I have some emotional issues to work on before I ever get married.
Is that an awkward statement or something? Marriage is fairly rare from where I come ._.
You can like, pretend you guys are married :P
"It was a week ago, where the hell have you been? I even sent you a post card!"
You have a wise mom, 20-year-old and married is not something that is common in my country. Ans it should not be. Most people get marrried at cirka 30 years of age.
@Banana man hmmmm... your idea and Janitsu's idea could work
Pls, the idea was all mine >:P
@Fox of course. XD Actually, if I'm ever still on this site when I get married, I thought about sharing like a wedding video to show my moba family. Then again, I never stay a on a site for long. XD