Views: 3005 Mobaferian Romance S18E9001 (Meiyjhe Update 21)
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Seasons pass by quickly huh. Anyway you can consider this a part 2 of the previous blog \o/
Table of Contents
1. Mobafire Romance
2. Internships and graduations
3. Oh who are we kidding, you came for the first topic!
1. Mobaferian Romance
So yeah if you read the previous blog you know that Xeres and me are a thing <3. Only thing that was holding us apart was the distance, him being in Macedonia and me in the Netherlands and all. However, the 13th until the 20th of Januari, I was lucky enough to be able to visit him overthere \o/
So yeah, I went there, we were together in a hotel, being able to do our own thing. Was a good warm and roomy hotel wíth good WIFI aaaanndddd had a wonderful boyfriend to put my arms around <3
It had its challenges, since Macedonia isn't known for being ******friendly. So we had to do our best to hide it. Other than that, we had so much fun together that... saying goodbye for a few months was the worst. I still feel so hurt about going back to the LDR situation until my internship starts again. UGH.
We will get through it though. I know we will. I #beeleaf <3
2. Internships and graduations
On the 30th of April I leave for Macedonia once more, but this time for 6 months. I will do my best to find a place and then with a bit of luck I will be able to succesfully make the Macedonian education more sustainable. This obviously has a lot of challenges, since first of all the GoGreen company where I will work is nongovernmental and second of all there are a lot of cultural differences.
Macedonians are very hospital and welcoming, inviting people to their place that they just got to know. Keeping to put things on your plate when you visit them like you haven't eaten in months. Continuously offer help with everything. They even offer help when they actually want you to say no, which is all something to get really used to.
I had some contact with GoGreen during my stay in the Macedonian capital of Skopje. There the guy in charge already gave me a tour through the city, invited me to go live in his brother's appartment and invited me to visit his parents house. That would NEVER have happened would I have an internship in the Netherlands, so my mind is all mixed up.
I am sure I will experience and learn a lot in Macedonia. Both with the internship, as well with le relationship <3
3. Thank you for reading!
So I know that I don't talk much on MOBAFire anymore, let alone about the relationship that's happening. Partially because I don't find much topics anymore that I can contribute to, partially because Xeres and I don't want us to be a "Mobaferian couple" and keep the relationship as our own thing.
However, that doesn't mean I love you guys any less. You guys helped me grow in life by allowing me to spurt out all my nonsense and giving insight on plentiful topics. So yeah, I say this every blog so it might get old, but thanks guys. You guys are great <3
Table of Contents
1. Mobafire Romance
2. Internships and graduations
3. Oh who are we kidding, you came for the first topic!
1. Mobaferian Romance
So yeah if you read the previous blog you know that Xeres and me are a thing <3. Only thing that was holding us apart was the distance, him being in Macedonia and me in the Netherlands and all. However, the 13th until the 20th of Januari, I was lucky enough to be able to visit him overthere \o/
Him and me
So yeah, I went there, we were together in a hotel, being able to do our own thing. Was a good warm and roomy hotel wíth good WIFI aaaanndddd had a wonderful boyfriend to put my arms around <3
It had its challenges, since Macedonia isn't known for being ******friendly. So we had to do our best to hide it. Other than that, we had so much fun together that... saying goodbye for a few months was the worst. I still feel so hurt about going back to the LDR situation until my internship starts again. UGH.
We will get through it though. I know we will. I #beeleaf <3
2. Internships and graduations
On the 30th of April I leave for Macedonia once more, but this time for 6 months. I will do my best to find a place and then with a bit of luck I will be able to succesfully make the Macedonian education more sustainable. This obviously has a lot of challenges, since first of all the GoGreen company where I will work is nongovernmental and second of all there are a lot of cultural differences.
Macedonians are very hospital and welcoming, inviting people to their place that they just got to know. Keeping to put things on your plate when you visit them like you haven't eaten in months. Continuously offer help with everything. They even offer help when they actually want you to say no, which is all something to get really used to.
I had some contact with GoGreen during my stay in the Macedonian capital of Skopje. There the guy in charge already gave me a tour through the city, invited me to go live in his brother's appartment and invited me to visit his parents house. That would NEVER have happened would I have an internship in the Netherlands, so my mind is all mixed up.
I am sure I will experience and learn a lot in Macedonia. Both with the internship, as well with le relationship <3
3. Thank you for reading!
So I know that I don't talk much on MOBAFire anymore, let alone about the relationship that's happening. Partially because I don't find much topics anymore that I can contribute to, partially because Xeres and I don't want us to be a "Mobaferian couple" and keep the relationship as our own thing.
However, that doesn't mean I love you guys any less. You guys helped me grow in life by allowing me to spurt out all my nonsense and giving insight on plentiful topics. So yeah, I say this every blog so it might get old, but thanks guys. You guys are great <3
Not everyone would like to share certain details with random people on the internet though ;)
No one is forcing anyone.
Guys, Amanda actually broke the ice and sparked a nice discussion. The discussion wasn't made about her in any way, but rather about sex in general. So, I honestly don't see the problem.
What MIGHT be better though is to make another thread specifically for this kind of talk! :D (Looking at you, TheSilverDust :>) Though, to be fair, it is also a topic that most people would prefer to discuss via PM.
#struggles
That's what off-topic is for; people who don't like it can avoid it easily.
What MIGHT be better though is to make another thread specifically for this kind of talk! :D (Looking at you, TheSilverDust :>) Though, to be fair, it is also a topic that most people would prefer to discuss via PM.
#struggles
I'm not harassing you, I'm pointing out why you got negative reactions to what you said.
I won't dispute the first point, but it's ironic that you just made this about me by insisting on bringing this up after the topic had already changed.
We get it, you don't like me and you think I'm an attention *****, can't you just **** off and find someone else to harass over pointless nonsense?
I'm not harassing you, I'm pointing out why you got negative reactions to what you said.
If people make comments to attract attention, let them. If you have problems with that, tell them personally. Calling someone out in a public forum only causes negative attention for no reason.
I don't know whether you realize it or not but you have a reputation for trying to attract attention to yourself and making threads about you, so when you come into a thread and point out "can confirm anal sex doesn't hurt that much", and claim it's because you wanted to spark a discussion about sex/anal sex...
... on a blog post about another member's personal life - then it's pretty natural for me and other people who haven't expressed their opinion in public like I have, to assume that you're just looking for attention again.
We get it, you don't like me and you think I'm an attention *****, can't you just **** off and find someone else to harass over pointless nonsense?
Well, I don't know where you're from, so I cannot judge. Here, it definitely isn't the cheapest option, that's for sure, but if it's your best shot, then sure, go for it. Also, if you really don't know someone that well, it's always a good thing to play it safe.
And yeah, religion against condoms... Ugh.
Truth.
Eh, I'd say that's either a bit too far, or a bit too far back.
... on a blog post about another member's personal life - then it's pretty natural for me and other people who haven't expressed their opinion in public like I have, to assume that you're just looking for attention again.
Someone else brought it up though, if it was her bringing it up, I'd be more inclined to understand your assumption, but in this case, I feel like it's purely based on experiences that go a while back.