OP, I've said it once and I'll say it again: there's no "how to" with people. Giving advice like "keep being obnoxious, it works" doesn't mean anything because there's girls who like the whole "hard to get thing" and there's girls who'll tell it to you like it is and if you keep at it they'll just wish they could get a restraining order. Same with guys.
Being yourself works simply because if you happen to enter a relationship that goes over ****ing every 2 days without a conversation and where you actually have to share, it becomes harder and harder to force yourself into being something you're not, and you'll actually save yourself from the humiliation of showing you are not the kind of person you were making them believe you are and passing out as a flat out liar or ********ter. It also helps you weed out people who will not fit in with your own personality, provided they're not lying to your face either.
There's also enough people in the world just looking to get laid and honest about it too that you don't actually need to pretend anything tbh. Just make up your mind about what you want and go get it.
Being yourself works simply because if you happen to enter a relationship that goes over ****ing every 2 days without a conversation and where you actually have to share, it becomes harder and harder to force yourself into being something you're not, and you'll actually save yourself from the humiliation of showing you are not the kind of person you were making them believe you are and passing out as a flat out liar or ********ter. It also helps you weed out people who will not fit in with your own personality, provided they're not lying to your face either.
There's also enough people in the world just looking to get laid and honest about it too that you don't actually need to pretend anything tbh. Just make up your mind about what you want and go get it.
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Let's be honest here, there's no "how-to" on making friends or finding romantic relationships with others. Being yourself, like Falseo had said, is the best way to go. Don't pretend someone you are not. And to give you something: life is not a dating sim or an RPG. There is no solid storyline unlike RPGs. It changes over time, and sometimes, there are people who come and go in our lives. And you're not someone who posted some advice here. Yes, there are situations that there are similarities, but will never be alike. So do not follow the advices here blindly because the result will not be the same. And to be honest, don't be that cool kid. JUST SHOW YOUR TRUE PERSONA *******IT!
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TheGeenius wrote:
I just want to say that this isn't an exact science. This is based on general observations. You might meet someone who responds in a completely negative manner when you act cocky.
It's not science, period. Like, it works for you, and that's it.
TheGeenius wrote:
It's like saying a boxer shouldn't be keeping his chin down and his fists up because that's not the way he likes to stand while boxing. And if he doesn't win the match because his ****ty stance didn't work, that's just fate and it was meant to happen that way.
You shouldn't let fate control you. People say that "It's not being yourself" but I would wager to say that it is.
In the army you are taught to have deep respect for yourself and others. Your attitude changes and you start seeing the world in a much more grounded manner. Is this not yourself because had you not gone to the army, you would not have become like that? No...
Things like this are meant to expand the mind. If your excuse for not changing yourself for the better is: "But that's not who I really am" then your bound to fail.
What sort of analogy is this. If you are absolutely determined to pick up women, you change YOUR personality and YOUR attitude if you fail AND THEN you try again. It's harder than being an obnoxious and annoying ******* but life's hard get used to it. Another way to put it is attempting to be a decent human being
Also:
The_Nameless_Bard wrote:
As a woman, I'll be honest with you: someone being cocky and obnoxious isn't attractive to me, it's just annoying.
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FalseoGod wrote:
Giving advice like "keep being obnoxious, it works" doesn't mean anything because there's girls who like the whole "hard to get thing" and there's girls who'll tell it to you like it is and if you keep at it they'll just wish they could get a restraining order. Same with guys.
FalseoGod wrote:
Being yourself works simply because if you happen to enter a relationship that goes over ****ing every 2 days without a conversation and where you actually have to share, it becomes harder and harder to force yourself into being something you're not, and you'll actually save yourself from the humiliation of showing you are not the kind of person you were making them believe you are and passing out as a flat out liar or ********ter. It also helps you weed out people who will not fit in with your own personality, provided they're not lying to your face either.
There's also enough people in the world just looking to get laid and honest about it too that you don't actually need to pretend anything tbh. Just make up your mind about what you want and go get it.
There's also enough people in the world just looking to get laid and honest about it too that you don't actually need to pretend anything tbh. Just make up your mind about what you want and go get it.
Agree with False. There's no specific attitude or set of lines that's going to get you girls, either they like you or they don't. Here's how to get girls to like you (AKA Vapora's Guide To Picking Up Girls).
Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 2: Be likeable.
That's it. wowsoCOMPLICATED
"wtf but im not attractive"
Then fix that. Get a better hairstyle, get fit, wear better clothes, take better care of yourself, whatever. I bet my left toe (the one on the far left of my left foot) that there's something you can do, even if over a long period of time, to make yourself look better. Even if you're naturally drop dead ugly, like the love child of Shrek and Jabba The Hutt or something, you can at least make yourself look better.
"wtf but im still not attractive"
Well fortunately for you, Urgot, looks aren't everything! Having a good personality can make up for almost anything. Except supporting Trump.
"wtf but im not likeable"
Becoming more confident should help I guess. If you are confident and it's just a case of having a horrible sense of humour and "the real you" being the biggest ******* alive, well... Hey, being attractive can make up for almost anything!
"wtf but im not attractive and not likeable"
Well, believe it or not, there are still people that'll like you, even if it's only 1 girl in 10,000. Meeting more girls will increase your chances of finding someone. Go get'em tiger.
Conclusion
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Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 2: Be likeable.
That's it. wowsoCOMPLICATED
"wtf but im not attractive"
Then fix that. Get a better hairstyle, get fit, wear better clothes, take better care of yourself, whatever. I bet my left toe (the one on the far left of my left foot) that there's something you can do, even if over a long period of time, to make yourself look better. Even if you're naturally drop dead ugly, like the love child of Shrek and Jabba The Hutt or something, you can at least make yourself look better.
"wtf but im still not attractive"
Well fortunately for you,
Urgot, looks aren't everything! Having a good personality can make up for almost anything. Except supporting Trump."wtf but im not likeable"
Becoming more confident should help I guess. If you are confident and it's just a case of having a horrible sense of humour and "the real you" being the biggest ******* alive, well... Hey, being attractive can make up for almost anything!
"wtf but im not attractive and not likeable"
Well, believe it or not, there are still people that'll like you, even if it's only 1 girl in 10,000. Meeting more girls will increase your chances of finding someone. Go get'em tiger.
Conclusion
That's it for my guide to picking up girls, hope you liked it and learned from it! If you did, you may also benefit from reading (This Removed Link) and (This Equally Removed Link)!
If you want any additional help/sources to learn from, you can subscribe/follow to my youtube and Twitch channels, where I'll be uploading videos every now and again and streaming in 720p!
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You can change yourself as much as you want. Forcing yourself to appear like someone else ends up in you still not being liked by some people while having a hard time holding up against people who like your new persona. If it comes naturally or you want to be somewhat different than you are then kudos for you if it works.
Keeping on annoying someone who already rejected you is the analog of throwing a punch when the boxing match is over, not of "keep fighting cuz u not down". You can still walk away with your head up, or reply if their response was disproportionately crude to your proposal, but that has nothing to do with flirting/gaining friends and is more about respect for oneself and the others.