Why girls change so fast?

[quote=TheJohn]I'm thinking how bad my situation is: I'm a wise 16 years old male that always helps friends and wants a serious love story (or just date a girl). I hate parties with loud music and where people just go kissing the others wildly. Then a friend comes and says: "Dont think like that. Girls change fast. In a few years, lots of girls will want to date you because you really want more than just a kiss" OK, the thing is: why girls change so fast? And how the hell that happens? Couldnt they plan their life before?[/quote]

[quote=Symphunny]The thing is, life's unexpected :/ However, i do know that girls do change a lot. I had a girl that i liked and i got to know her in a year. We were really really close. I liked her and she liked me back, however, summer came, and we had to transition from middle school to high school so there was going to be a lot more work. I dont know what happened but we became distant. And because of high school, i started talk to more people, females to be precise, because well, high school, you know, tells you to be more outgoing and get involved. So something happened and she changed. She wasnt the girl i once loved and i guess we're on about the edge of our friendship. TR;DR ~ girls change at least once at some point of their lives. its the stage of being mentally immature and unready for love to mentally mature and ready for relationships and crud. i honestly consider myself mentally mature now thanks to her...[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]Cause they suddenly realise that they only were wanted for their goods. This then results in them emotionally breaking down, I like to call this the "vulnerable time", this is the point when you can take advantage of the situation, show them what you have to offer and they will really like you (the fact that you want more than a kiss, you want a serious relation and love and all that cheesy stuff). Even though they will play all hard to get and tell you their stupid ass boring pointless ass stories of how used they were. Just be the person who listens to that shit and they will get really attached to you and bam you're all good. However if you wanna be a dick like me, whilst they are all emotional with you, you can still go around when they dont know and meet women, flirt and you know. Just make sure they dont find out, and even if they do.. you can add some drama and be like, I have changed blah blah. They will be on the palm of your hand. This however is very optional.[/quote]

[quote=Luther3000][quote=Dante Rebellion] However if you wanna be a dick like me [/quote] Accurate.[/quote]

[quote=Whated#79092]Dante da asshola.[/quote]

[quote=theBMB][quote=Dante Rebellion] Cause they suddenly realise that they only were wanted for their goods. This then results in them emotionally breaking down, I like to call this the "vulnerable time", this is the point when you can take advantage of the situation, show them what you have to offer and they will really like you (the fact that you want more than a kiss, you want a serious relation and love and all that cheesy stuff). Even though they will play all hard to get and tell you their stupid ass boring pointless ass stories of how used they were. Just be the person who listens to that shit and they will get really attached to you and bam you're all good. However if you wanna be a dick like me, whilst they are all emotional with you, you can still go around when they dont know and meet women, flirt and you know. Just make sure they dont find out, and even if they do.. you can add some drama and be like, I have changed blah blah. They will be on the palm of your hand. This however is very optional. [/quote] you think you would've learned from the last thread not to comment on this stuff. Your life sounds like Jersey Shore. I imagine you'll be going through a lot of divorces since you have no idea how to look for values in people. @theJohn: second time you've asked a girl related question, you're very confused, believe me I went through the same thoughts you did. just give it time, you'll get over the confusion. Work on accepting yourself first and then just wait and be natural. Don't listen to Dante's advice, he only looks for sex and I'm assuming you want a more fulfilling relationship.[/quote]

[quote=Svadilfari][quote=TheJohn] I'm thinking how bad my situation is: I'm a wise 16 years old male that always helps friends and wants a serious love story (or just date a girl). I hate parties with loud music and where people just go kissing the others wildly. Then a friend comes and says: "Dont think like that. Girls change fast. In a few years, lots of girls will want to date you because you really want more than just a kiss" OK, the thing is: why girls change so fast? And how the hell that happens? Couldnt they plan their life before? [/quote] I had the feeling of reading my own story.[/quote]

[quote=TheJohn][quote=Dante Rebellion] Even though they will play all hard to get and tell you their stupid ass boring pointless ass stories of how used they were. Just be the person who listens to that shit and they will get really attached to you and bam you're all good. However if you wanna be a dick like me, whilst they are all emotional with you, you can still go around when they dont know and meet women, flirt and you know. Just make sure they dont find out, and even if they do.. you can add some drama and be like, I have changed blah blah. They will be on the palm of your hand. This however is very optional. [/quote] lol, I'm just thinking who cares about the story. Some people look like they are paying attention and say something nice after (my friend gave me such a hint). Thats kinda crazy, but if she doesnt find out, it works. theBMB: I'm just asking. I know you guys are older than me and want to know some things, older people can always teach you things (my dad says that). I'm being natural, but I have problems, my life just goes faster than my friends' (maybe that explains hy I like metal, walk faster than the others, write a good text in 10 mins). Dante's advices are really nice, they make me think how honest I am.[/quote]

[quote=Wintermond]When I opened this Thread I expected to see a Thread about how fast girls can change clothes. :\[/quote]

[quote=theBMB][quote=Wintermond] When I opened this Thread I expected to see a Thread about how fast girls can change clothes. :\ [/quote] answer: not fast at all[/quote]