DuffTime wrote:
ok ok plz carry me omg
i was only waiting for you to ask
Temzilla wrote:
Too hot to be icecream.
Luther3000 wrote:
He looks like a hair gel advert on legs
Toshabi wrote:
Icecreamy, with hair as slick and smooth as the ocean waves of Cocobana
I don't like guys like that. I like to refer to them as *******.
Personal habitual activites? Utilizing gargantuan idioms to fabricate intelligence.
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The_Nameless_Bard wrote:
It's the girl being careful....the guy doesn't have to do/change anything, which is part of why deciding not to date a girl who could have gotten pregnant because she isn't on birth control sounds very douche-y. If men care about something other than sex, they usually deal with it.
Condoms should be used regardless because birth control is NOT 100% effective.
I overstated things a bit, sorry about that.
It's a couples choice.. As a couple you decide which contraceptive to use, some are better than others.
You can't say that taking the pill is the girl being careful. If you say that then you also have to agree that using the condom is the guy being careful. And since it's the guy that's being careful the girl is not doing anything to prevent pregnancy. And if the girl's not doing anything to prevent pregnancy then he is right to dump her because he's not ready to have a baby.
See how logic works both ways?
Either way he has every right to choose "I will not risk getting you pregnant" and break up with her because of it. Whether he waits until after the abortion or before they have sex he still has that choice.
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@Canoas: If a guy is being stupid enough to break the condom (the best way of birth control) he should face the consequences like a man, and not run away like some ********.
DuffTime wrote:
ok ok plz carry me omg
i was only waiting for you to ask
Temzilla wrote:
Too hot to be icecream.
Luther3000 wrote:
He looks like a hair gel advert on legs
Toshabi wrote:
Icecreamy, with hair as slick and smooth as the ocean waves of Cocobana
It's not like guys are the only ones who like sex. If a guy is told to "wrap before you tap" why does a girl all of a sudden get a free pass? Girls like sex just as much as guys, if I was getting into a relationship with a girl and we were moving into a bit more of a sexual territory I'd want to talk with her about getting on birth control. If she refused, depending on her reasoning, I would almost certainly have to refrain from being in the relationship. It's not that I wouldn't care about her, I would, but knowing how people can give into their primal urges in the heat of the moment, I couldn't risk my future on it.
Cuddles one night turns into sex, the condom breaks/or somehow didnt work, boom she gets pregnant, and now I have to give up on my college career to get a few jobs to support a family? Where is it fair to me to be the safe one? It's the couples responsibility, if I have to wear a condom she most definitely should be on contraception.
Cuddles one night turns into sex, the condom breaks/or somehow didnt work, boom she gets pregnant, and now I have to give up on my college career to get a few jobs to support a family? Where is it fair to me to be the safe one? It's the couples responsibility, if I have to wear a condom she most definitely should be on contraception.
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@IceCreamy
Some condoms can have defects. Some condoms could have been damaged. You don't know.
What if he put the condom on the bedside table and she was the one who accidentally put a hot glass with milk on top of it without noticing? Can you say for sure that was not the case? You can't. It may not have been stupidity, a condom can get damaged without the guy ever suspecting or doing something to damage it. It happens.
Maybe he had the same exact opinion you do, and then that day he realised he was wrong. A condom in it's pristine state is the best contraceptive, the problem is when it gets damaged and you're not aware of it.
Some condoms can have defects. Some condoms could have been damaged. You don't know.
What if he put the condom on the bedside table and she was the one who accidentally put a hot glass with milk on top of it without noticing? Can you say for sure that was not the case? You can't. It may not have been stupidity, a condom can get damaged without the guy ever suspecting or doing something to damage it. It happens.
Maybe he had the same exact opinion you do, and then that day he realised he was wrong. A condom in it's pristine state is the best contraceptive, the problem is when it gets damaged and you're not aware of it.
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Condoms should be used regardless because birth control is NOT 100% effective.
I overstated things a bit, sorry about that.