Why girls change so fast?

[quote=theBMB]Nighthawk, I'm sorry you're so offended by all of this, but my point is DANTE is the one being insulted, not YOU. YOU have no reason to become so emotional over this topic when Dante himself does not care about the things that have been said about him. And if you think he does, then you yourself are making assumptions about him as well. I'm not sure what your relationship with Dante is, but if you feel the need to defend him by confessing your whole life story, then you've become too emotionally involved with this. This is the internet, if you take things too seriously, you'll just drive yourself insane. For your own good, please just relax. If you have anything else you feel you need to prove to me, just say it in a PM, this thread has just gotten way out of hand.[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]Hmmm, The main reason why I dont directly defend myself from the shitstorm is because it is pointless, it will just cause more and more arguments. I like what Nighthawk is doing, not because she/he is taking my side.. but instead trying to tell people not to judge someone so quickly. Dufftime, you should just chill the fuck down I have never really addressed you in my posts my advice was directed at TheJohn, however you decided to butt in and go all o.d personal and start sobbing about the moments you had and blah blah blah true love blah blah I'm ghetto blah blah. You should take your own advice: "If you're having a shit week, then take a break and a hot shower or something. It happens to all of us." and stop crying like a little bitch, kthx (excuse my french) theBMB I think you're taking it a bit too personally too lal. Look, I'm just saying what works for me.. I have a good life, everything is working great, you might say that its just for now but I have a positive attitude and I feel like I can maintain this level of happiness for a while. Its just simple opinions and different techniques, you don't HAVE to do anything I say... You can say that "oh i'm a disgrace to guys", but there is always a level of respect I give people, just because I sound really harsh online it doesn't mean I am a bad person it's just that i'm being extremely frank a bit more than I usually am. I'm telling you what I think through my head, how I act so that you can slowly think about these different things and understand certain situations you might be put in. Pssh I consider myself an alpha male, I dont really give much of a fuck what people say, I have confidence with who I am and you should know that its just pointless to direct your insults towards me, I dont care. "He just posted a little picture of dolls kissing to show that he doesn't give a shit about romance and finds it trivial, and that he thinks I'm lame for stating what I did about it and defending the idea of romance that he views as weak and stupid because it can get you hurt. People like Dante pretend they don't care about love to protect themselves from it." ~ Dufftime [img]http://www.hiphophater.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Why-You-Mad-450x282.jpg[/img] .. So yeah.. listen to Nighthawk and respect what she/he says. He/She is just such a good human being with alot of heart. Edit: If you guys didnt notice, my one word replies and picture replies is just so that this shit can stop, but somehow theBMB and Dufftime manage to drag it for a couple of pages. Oh lawd.[/quote]

[quote=Valermos][quote=theBMB] you were dating a 14 year old girl when you were practically a full grown adult. Do you honestly think a 14 year old girl has any idea what she wants in life? She just barely finished puberty. Why would you put the moves on someone so young, that's borderline predator status. [/quote] well she told me she wanted it and i know she can't know it but she still loves me now but she wants a little bit more freedom and want to discover the world. fine for me but let me go for that ? now she's too late she knew i was good enough for her 3 year relation ship destroyed by nothing in my eyes.[/quote]

[quote=Valermos]there is something known about ignoring people start doing it i read all this shitt and ill think lawl. just talk with people you want the posts beside it i dont care :P[/quote]

[quote=Embracing]Hey guys let's just chill and continue with the topic. Let's not take all of this too personally and just try our best to post comments that support our opinion. I mean treat it like a debate instead of an argument. Let's just chill it with the insults and just post our thoughts out peacefully. [quote = TheJohn] OK, the thing is: why girls change so fast? And how the hell that happens? Couldnt they plan their life before? [/quote] My parents usually say "Girls usually mature later than boys", and I think it might be the reason why. Maybe it's just me, but most boys out there who actually have matured are the people who have experienced things before. I think most of the girls who change quickly are the girls who first got in contact with "society". It's their first time trying to face the feelings of love and hate. If you ever were young in the teens like I currently am [15], you would probably know. For the people who are older, don't hate on these feelings. Many of us still struggle through feelings of whether we love someone or not. Us boys can't change anything about girls. The only thing we can do is try our best to influence them so that they will realize we're actually people who have meaning. I mean, I don't know. I've been single my whole life, I'm not that smart, I'm not social, and I certainly aren't any good looking. I'm just a boy who has experience through a lot of things, and these are my thoughts on girls changing. Real life is just like solo queue. In real life, if a girl ditches you for someone else, don't blame it on her even if she is the one to be blamed. Think of it as you not being good enough. Don't get discouraged though, or you will just become a pessimist. In solo queue, there might be someone feeding a lot. You won't gain anything from blaming them, even if they are feeding a lot. The only thing you can do about is try your best to help them, and carry your team. Thinking teammates suck will only result you getting stuck in elo hell, even if they really do suck. The only way to advance is if you keep getting motivated to improve. Just my personal thoughts. And guys, this thread might be about real life, but don't take it too personal. It's just another person's thoughts. If you disagree with it, just post a simple comment or so. Maybe state out that their comments irritate you. Putting more hate into comments doesn't help. Just like raging at teammates in LoL doesn't help either. Hf. :) Peace.[/quote]

[quote=Valermos]well rosephoenix. Your opinion is a good one. I do the same but i dont talk in game language " solo que " (lol) haha :P Uhm what i can tell you sooner or later some girls will find out your good to go. but now these days girls just think of getting boned by big boys. and get dumped later on because they just abuse them. wait for a good girl dont fuck anything that walks. and yes stop raging plox :P peace[/quote]

[quote=mobrebel]My only advice is try to avoid the drama that comes with high school relationships. There is a reason that almost all high school(and i say almost for you high school sweetheart couples that certainly have to admit you got lucky...) fail after one summer. Usually during high school, people believe that they are mature and ready for a relationship, but then get caught up in little things that don't even mean anything to the relationship as a whole. This usually leads to a dramatic confrontation over something silly leading to a break-up or a break-up through a messenger which I find even more immature than anything else. I am not saying I am a psychologist or anything; I am just 18 and in my freshman year of college. BUT, I do speak from personal experience and from observations from around me during my high school career. Until both girls and boys mature, don't expect a meaningful wonderful relationship at all times. Also, I find that guys and girls both change fast and suddenly. It just happens. Someone may realize something about themselves or just not feel the same way after that summer. It just happens. Until you find that true significant other that you can relate to and understand, you will notice this happening. Until around freshman year of college(may be earlier or later depending on the type of person he/she is and/or you are), I almost find relationships to be pointless as one or both sides of the relationship are not mature. Maturity comes with time and, though it may seem sudden as you describe with your question, it is to be expected. Hey, it may not even be maturity that comes around either. It may be just that the girl/guy wants to mess with you(not necessarily you but whoever the subject is) so they can laugh with their friends or whatever. High school kids can be VERY childish. Now, I wasn't the most mature in my freshman year of high school, but that changed for me(I believe) in my sophomore year during, I guess you can call it that "Fateful" first high school relationship. Being dumped over saying one sentence which is clearly a joke and then dumping me through a messenger without even talking to me at all is truly eye-opening. Then, the next day, that same girl laughing with her friends about the new guy she has... Yea, something like that opens your eyes and shows you how immature people can be. Those girls that "change so fast" also might not truly know what their feelings are. So, don't expect anything. Just go with the flow. If you don't agree with me in any way, I respect that. But, just understand that high school is a rougher world than it looks and that there is truth in this long "post" of mine.[/quote]

[quote=TheJohn]ty Phoenix for breaking that fight here (you guys wrote 2 pages saying things about the others and forgot the main subject). mobrebel has a good point. Its totally true that high school relationships dont last long like the ones that happen after. Phoenix wrote a great example too. It made me feel less pessimist (i doubt if I'm pessimist, my father said I'm too self confident). I made a decision, I'm gonna forget the girls around me, as my friend said: "you deserve better girls" (and she is the worst of them telling this to me, so it can only be true).[/quote]

[quote=th3BlackAngel]My thoughts on this odd as hell subject: don't TRY to get a girlfriend. Meet people (different people mind you, don't always hang out with the same "type"), in your specific case, girls. You might like some and might not like some, but thats irrelevant. Find one that likes you, and if you like her great, make moves. If you don't (initially at least) get to know her or give it a shot, maybe there's more to that person than you initialy thought. What I want to say is, don't get caught up with the idea that you loved someone and she changed so I don't know what I'm going to do know. People change, especially during highschool. Try to stick to your ideals and shit so that YOU don't change. Don't forget about girls, thats not a good idea. Just meet new girls, and new "types" of girls, because there are many.[/quote]

[quote=Nighthawk][quote=RosePhoenix]It's just another person's thoughts. If you disagree with it, just post a simple comment or so. Maybe state out that their comments irritate you. Putting more hate into comments doesn't help. Just like raging at teammates in LoL doesn't help either. Hf. :) Peace. [/quote] Not gonna say anything else in this thread (will argue with you all you want in PM tho, even if I do <3 u Duff) except that this is exactly my mentality. Whole post, but this in particular.[/quote]