How to find a good girlfriend

[quote=The_Nameless_Bard]lol that is mostly bs Girls that actually give a shit about you will like you whether you are popular or not. The ones that like you because you are popular are the shallow ones. Being a playa will drive off most nice girls, because they won't wanna deal with your bs. I can only hope you're joking...because this really makes me think you're kind of an asshole. =P[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]No The_nameless_bard, I am serious. You speak on the point of view of women. Women do not know what they want, and should never give advice to a guy on dating (its interesting to hear what they say though). But I understand why umad, it's because I am basically saying treat women like some sort of object. Hurtful words yes...yes they are. But its what needs to be done so that when you find that girl that means everything to you, you can read her body language and hints and know how to approach the situation (not the dude from jersey shore). You see, if you start dating the shallow ones, you will not be attached to them as much. Breaking up can be extreamly painful, especially if you are not ready for it and have not gone through it before. It can kill your hopes, dreams and make you feel like crap for a very long time. But with the shallow ones breaking up will be easier, you have a good attitude "fuck em" and get a new woman. When you find that "special" girl... your attitude WILL change lol, believe me, you are not going to be that asshole. "Being a playa will drive off most nice girls, because they won't wanna deal with your bs.".. LOL, FUCK NO. Tell me TNB, didnt you have a crush on that "popular guy"? That confident, funny alpha male? But you never had the guts to speak to him. You secretly wanted to be with him but you felt like you are not up to his expectations. This is the case with many guys when it comes to women. You gotta get those hot ones and you do need experience, it's the only way you can later get that "perfect" person.[/quote]

[quote=B-Wong][quote=Dante Rebellion] You speak on the point of view of women. Women do not know what they want, and should never give advice to a guy on dating (its interesting to hear what they say though).[/quote] Welcome to the internet where sexism is probably the most prevalent form of idiocy.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]This is slowly becoming a semi-decent source of info... Please continue your argument...[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]It's not sexism b-wong, it's a fact. I do not mean it as any form of disrespect. But women often confuse themselves with what they really want, and what they really want to hear. I.e Girl: Do you think I'm fat? Guy: No, you're really pretty Girl: You're lying! Guy: NO! Im serious! Girl: How can I trust someone who always says I look perfect, tell me please! Guy: You look amazing, the curves are nice Girl: CURVES? SO YOU MEAN IM FAT? Guy: wait no... Girl: OMFG IM FAT. That cheesy example happens quite often (not with all women), but it happens often. They just ask weird rhetorical questions and are confused with what they really want to hear.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]It's because the human language is confusing as fuck! It's a lot easier to lie frequently, and convincingly, than tell them what they want to hear. Ofc, you should tell them the truth like, 85% of the time.[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion][quote=Lugignaf] It's because the human language is confusing as fuck! It's a lot easier to lie frequently, and convincingly, than tell them what they want to hear. Ofc, you should tell them the truth like, 85% of the time. [/quote] Yep exactly. But this is apparently a "dick move" for alot of girls. It's always better to read body language, but goodluck doing that if you don't have any experience with women and dating.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]If they ask "Do I look good in this dress?", it's better to say "I like it but can I see other choices" or something to that effect rather than a flat out "No." Wordplay is power.[/quote]

[quote=jhoijhoi]As the only other female active on these forums (not sure where Mowen went), I felt like I should state my opinion. 1) Dante you are a chauvinistic bastard. You sound like one of those dickheads that would get a girl pregnant, deny it, and then straight away start grabbing ass, male or female. You're that guy at high school who did have a few girlfriends, and each time you dumped them, you said, "Hey baby, it's not you... it's me." Reality check - once you're out of high school, that tactic will not work. Your group of friends that you're popular with - they're not going to follow you your whole life like a fucking personal marching band. Your attitude towards women is disgusting and males like you are the reason why nice girls get knocked up and have abortions. 2) Dante is also, sort of right. Yes, girls in high school will fawn over popular boys. But they're just as likely to go after the quiet, shy guy, or the academic type. If you are having trouble picking up a girlfriend, these are the only possible reasons: a) You are extremely unattractive (like naturally you're bad looking. Really obese, really hairy with monobrow, eyes too close together) b) You are tall, but you hunch yourself over so that you don't look as tall (FOR CRYING OUT LOUD STAND UP STRAIGHT, GIRLS LOVE TALL GUYS!) c) You smell. Seriously. Put on some deodorant, wash your hair so it's not greasy. d) Your teeth are bad. If they are crooked, I guess there's nothing you can do if you can't afford the dentist, but yellow teeth are inexcusable. Stop smoking. Stop drinking. Start brushing your teeth. e) You are stupid. You do stupid things at lunch time. You get poor grades. f) You did something bad that everyone remembers (and are bullied/teased for it) ^ these reasons are the only reasons why you shouldn't have a girlfriend.[/quote]

[quote=Symphunny]Bro, girls are so complicated Q__Q you know when you found a perfect girl when she's being true to herself, when she's real. Before getting a gf, you got to know the real them first. Best types of girls are those that are cute, real, nice, caring, hilarious, and those who value their own opinions before others, those who have an open heart and mind. After typing all that, at some point, I forgot what I was typing about...[/quote]