How to find a good girlfriend

[quote=Dante Rebellion]Mayyyn, you guys think too much. To be honest there really is no technique, if you want to get a long time girl then it's a bit complected but if you want a girl just for show.. I think it's much easier to get those. I've been with quite alot of girls (LOL E-Bragging), most of which have just been hot women who I basically just show off with. But I ditched all of that and I am currently with (well not exactly with, but we getting there) a beautiful girl who is extremely hard to get, who I am pretty sure will be a "long time girl". So let's just say I know my shit. First off you got to think about what girls look for in guys, girls usually want that Alpha Male. Tall, handsome, strong, intelligent, popular, funny, CONFIDENT, lovable, etc. But the thing is alot of guys are not that Alpha male, and TheJohn if you want to find a quality woman you will have to be that Alpha Male. You have to start demonstrating Value, why would any woman want to date you? You're a useless piece of shit that plays video games, has no experience when it comes to the ladies, you ejaculate as soon as you penetrate, no social status and has no friends in real. You do not what to be that person. Start building popularity, I understand that if you are already a loser at school or work, you are not going to be popular all of a sudden, and even if you are, it will be short lived popularity. Start building a foundation, keep in touch with the friends you already have but also slowly make more friends, socialize, be funny and be that guy that everyone can talk to. That guy who makes everybody laugh. What this does is make you FEEL more confident, you feel more important and you get less nerves when you speak with women. Remember that if your friends don't like how you have changed for the BETTER by becoming and independent popular individual, they really aren't your friends. They miss the days when you was a loser, it made them feel better and they could take advantage of you easier. It's a harsh world man, pick your friends wisely but try and be cool with everybody. After you gain popularity girls will automatically come to you. You need to understand that right now you have no real experience and your best bet would be to either get an ugly woman who loves you alot or a hot woman who just wants you to make her more popular (the sex is good with this one). Imo don't go for those average/ugly women, leave those for the people who have no game at all. I'm sure you want to be loved but fuck that. It's time you get a smoking hot girlfriend, play your cards right. Once you get this hot girlfriend display her publicly it will give you more value, alot of girls and guy will notice you and think "wow this ugly motherfucker got a smoking ass girl, I wanna know him", or the more jealous kind of women (average-ugly chicks) will think "omg he's such a material guy, omg he only likes whores, omg I think I like him and I wanna go out with him but im not hot like the girls he is with, omgomg" Mayn you got to learn from experience. You have to learn love and heartbreak. You have to be a playa (for a while anyway). Start to use this hot woman, sex... etc. Makes you a better lover and all women like a guy who takes control and bangs them good, not some guy who is shivering and who cant get it in because he doesnt know what the hell he is doing, and once he gets it in the just does one position for like 5 mins and then he finishes. Lal. You have to grab her, throw her around into like 10 different positions and be friggin awesome and experienced. (I am kinda a big guy around 6ft pretty chunky, so for the skinnier/flabby/shorter guys uhhh... im not too sure, try joining a gym or something.),,,, Another benefit of dating a hot girl is that it becomes very easy to talk to ugly/average girls and equally easy to talk to beautiful girls (the perfect woman, quality girls). The biggest barrier is conversation and these hot slutty (but clean of diseases remember that) women will give you much needed experience and you will slowly start to build confidence. So yeah, I think this is all the advice ill give for now, if you guys want to know moar I'll post it. TL;DR: Make more friends, build Value. Date hot women. Love Guru up in this bitch.[/quote]

[quote=The_Nameless_Bard]lol that is mostly bs Girls that actually give a shit about you will like you whether you are popular or not. The ones that like you because you are popular are the shallow ones. Being a playa will drive off most nice girls, because they won't wanna deal with your bs. I can only hope you're joking...because this really makes me think you're kind of an asshole. =P[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]No The_nameless_bard, I am serious. You speak on the point of view of women. Women do not know what they want, and should never give advice to a guy on dating (its interesting to hear what they say though). But I understand why umad, it's because I am basically saying treat women like some sort of object. Hurtful words yes...yes they are. But its what needs to be done so that when you find that girl that means everything to you, you can read her body language and hints and know how to approach the situation (not the dude from jersey shore). You see, if you start dating the shallow ones, you will not be attached to them as much. Breaking up can be extreamly painful, especially if you are not ready for it and have not gone through it before. It can kill your hopes, dreams and make you feel like crap for a very long time. But with the shallow ones breaking up will be easier, you have a good attitude "fuck em" and get a new woman. When you find that "special" girl... your attitude WILL change lol, believe me, you are not going to be that asshole. "Being a playa will drive off most nice girls, because they won't wanna deal with your bs.".. LOL, FUCK NO. Tell me TNB, didnt you have a crush on that "popular guy"? That confident, funny alpha male? But you never had the guts to speak to him. You secretly wanted to be with him but you felt like you are not up to his expectations. This is the case with many guys when it comes to women. You gotta get those hot ones and you do need experience, it's the only way you can later get that "perfect" person.[/quote]

[quote=B-Wong][quote=Dante Rebellion] You speak on the point of view of women. Women do not know what they want, and should never give advice to a guy on dating (its interesting to hear what they say though).[/quote] Welcome to the internet where sexism is probably the most prevalent form of idiocy.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]This is slowly becoming a semi-decent source of info... Please continue your argument...[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion]It's not sexism b-wong, it's a fact. I do not mean it as any form of disrespect. But women often confuse themselves with what they really want, and what they really want to hear. I.e Girl: Do you think I'm fat? Guy: No, you're really pretty Girl: You're lying! Guy: NO! Im serious! Girl: How can I trust someone who always says I look perfect, tell me please! Guy: You look amazing, the curves are nice Girl: CURVES? SO YOU MEAN IM FAT? Guy: wait no... Girl: OMFG IM FAT. That cheesy example happens quite often (not with all women), but it happens often. They just ask weird rhetorical questions and are confused with what they really want to hear.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]It's because the human language is confusing as fuck! It's a lot easier to lie frequently, and convincingly, than tell them what they want to hear. Ofc, you should tell them the truth like, 85% of the time.[/quote]

[quote=Dante Rebellion][quote=Lugignaf] It's because the human language is confusing as fuck! It's a lot easier to lie frequently, and convincingly, than tell them what they want to hear. Ofc, you should tell them the truth like, 85% of the time. [/quote] Yep exactly. But this is apparently a "dick move" for alot of girls. It's always better to read body language, but goodluck doing that if you don't have any experience with women and dating.[/quote]

[quote=Lugignaf]If they ask "Do I look good in this dress?", it's better to say "I like it but can I see other choices" or something to that effect rather than a flat out "No." Wordplay is power.[/quote]

[quote=jhoijhoi]As the only other female active on these forums (not sure where Mowen went), I felt like I should state my opinion. 1) Dante you are a chauvinistic bastard. You sound like one of those dickheads that would get a girl pregnant, deny it, and then straight away start grabbing ass, male or female. You're that guy at high school who did have a few girlfriends, and each time you dumped them, you said, "Hey baby, it's not you... it's me." Reality check - once you're out of high school, that tactic will not work. Your group of friends that you're popular with - they're not going to follow you your whole life like a fucking personal marching band. Your attitude towards women is disgusting and males like you are the reason why nice girls get knocked up and have abortions. 2) Dante is also, sort of right. Yes, girls in high school will fawn over popular boys. But they're just as likely to go after the quiet, shy guy, or the academic type. If you are having trouble picking up a girlfriend, these are the only possible reasons: a) You are extremely unattractive (like naturally you're bad looking. Really obese, really hairy with monobrow, eyes too close together) b) You are tall, but you hunch yourself over so that you don't look as tall (FOR CRYING OUT LOUD STAND UP STRAIGHT, GIRLS LOVE TALL GUYS!) c) You smell. Seriously. Put on some deodorant, wash your hair so it's not greasy. d) Your teeth are bad. If they are crooked, I guess there's nothing you can do if you can't afford the dentist, but yellow teeth are inexcusable. Stop smoking. Stop drinking. Start brushing your teeth. e) You are stupid. You do stupid things at lunch time. You get poor grades. f) You did something bad that everyone remembers (and are bullied/teased for it) ^ these reasons are the only reasons why you shouldn't have a girlfriend.[/quote]