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I don't even understand why someone's even asking for advice on a League of Legends forum, like really? 75% of people who play online games are a majority of people who are shut-ins.
I know it sounds rude but you know it's true, (why do you think it's frowned upon today's society?).
Concerning dating though, you just need personality. Sure looks help a lot, but if you're hot but boring as ****, who'd want to date that.
For me, I'm not 'popular' but I know plenty of people and I'm not bad looking at all. I can say girls here aren't into that egotistical stuff Dante just said, they have standards. If you are thinking it's because they are ugly, no.. I live in Florida it's like typical hot girls who surf here. No one's really popular where my school is because no one cares about that ****, if you're cool then we hang out with you regardless, who gives a **** on what you do. I can say that because I'm one of them. I used to play this certain online game a lot, and I still maintained my social status because they liked who I was.
Girls aren't to shallow to only go for looks.
But man some of you guys just seem pitiful because you guys make it seem no one wants to hang out with you, when you yourself doesn't even attempt to do anything about it.
The real world isn't as scary as you think.
@Dante Most of the things you are saying is basically just how to hook up with a girl for like what? A month?
I know it sounds rude but you know it's true, (why do you think it's frowned upon today's society?).
Concerning dating though, you just need personality. Sure looks help a lot, but if you're hot but boring as ****, who'd want to date that.
For me, I'm not 'popular' but I know plenty of people and I'm not bad looking at all. I can say girls here aren't into that egotistical stuff Dante just said, they have standards. If you are thinking it's because they are ugly, no.. I live in Florida it's like typical hot girls who surf here. No one's really popular where my school is because no one cares about that ****, if you're cool then we hang out with you regardless, who gives a **** on what you do. I can say that because I'm one of them. I used to play this certain online game a lot, and I still maintained my social status because they liked who I was.
Girls aren't to shallow to only go for looks.
But man some of you guys just seem pitiful because you guys make it seem no one wants to hang out with you, when you yourself doesn't even attempt to do anything about it.
The real world isn't as scary as you think.
@Dante Most of the things you are saying is basically just how to hook up with a girl for like what? A month?
Dante: Seen it, and actually like the song :) Nice guys do finish last ;) If they don't, I better get some afterwards.
Dante Rebellion wrote:
No The_nameless_bard, I am serious.
You speak on the point of view of women. Women do not know what they want, and should never give advice to a guy on dating (its interesting to hear what they say though).
But I understand why umad, it's because I am basically saying treat women like some sort of object. Hurtful words yes...yes they are. But its what needs to be done so that when you find that girl that means everything to you, you can read her body language and hints and know how to approach the situation (not the dude from jersey shore).
You see, if you start dating the shallow ones, you will not be attached to them as much. Breaking up can be extreamly painful, especially if you are not ready for it and have not gone through it before. It can kill your hopes, dreams and make you feel like **** for a very long time. But with the shallow ones breaking up will be easier, you have a good attitude "**** em" and get a new woman. When you find that "special" girl... your attitude WILL change lol, believe me, you are not going to be that *******.
"Being a playa will drive off most nice girls, because they won't wanna deal with your bs.".. LOL, **** NO.
Let me just say that my comments are based on my own personal feelings.
I've been used enough times by my so-called "friends" (most of the guys I hung out with in high school were *******s or too nice to say no to me) and a few other guys...the last thing I would do is date someone like you, knowing I would definitely be nothing but eye candy and a sex toy.
Women no perfectly well what they want, and are intelligent enough to see through your ********, so, mostly, only shallow girls will want a guy like you.
You want to get a long-term girlfriend? Grow up and act like you actually give a ****.
jhoijhoi wrote:
a) You are extremely unattractive (like naturally you're bad looking. Really obese, really hairy with monobrow, eyes too close together)
b) You are tall, but you hunch yourself over so that you don't look as tall (FOR CRYING OUT LOUD STAND UP STRAIGHT, GIRLS LOVE TALL GUYS!)
c) You smell. Seriously. Put on some deodorant, wash your hair so it's not greasy.
d) Your teeth are bad. If they are crooked, I guess there's nothing you can do if you can't afford the dentist, but yellow teeth are inexcusable. Stop smoking. Stop drinking. Start brushing your teeth.
e) You are stupid. You do stupid things at lunch time. You get poor grades.
f) You did something bad that everyone remembers (and are bullied/teased for it)
a) sure hot/cute is nice, but personality is FAR more important
b) true, but refer back to point a
c) Agreed, this is gross
d) Yellow teeth are also gross, but for crooked teeth refer back to point a
e) Stupid guys are annoying, it's true
f) A girl who actually cares about the guy won't give a ****.
I am odd because I am an un-shallow person, I s'pose.
I date people because I like them as a person, if they're hot that's a bonus.
Nameless: I was stating the opinions of girls who aren't like me. Hell, you and I, we're both gamers, and we both are dating gamers. We care more for personality than looks.
The above criteria were more for the girls that the guys in this thread want (peroxide blonde, big boobs, small ***).
If you guys want girls like Nameless and myself (the type of girl that will love you no matter what you have done in the past), what she said earlier was true: be yourself.
The above criteria were more for the girls that the guys in this thread want (peroxide blonde, big boobs, small ***).
If you guys want girls like Nameless and myself (the type of girl that will love you no matter what you have done in the past), what she said earlier was true: be yourself.
jhoijhoi wrote:
The above criteria were more for the girls that the guys in this thread want (peroxide blonde, big boobs, small ***).
Lawl, being pretty has little to do with any of those 3 things.
I'm a strong independent black mage who don't need no mana.
Hahahah Dante **** you alpha. "Be friend with everyone" What the **** ******** is that. You mean you are friends with the nerdy once too? Be serious. You are with your Alpha gang and bang *****es when ever you pleas. Get real! I bet you smoke too! And drink. You filty animal!
Also
My problem is; I do not have good looks, but great, I mean GREAT Social skills. I can talk to everyone and make them happy to have the talk with me. But about my looks... I am not the guy who has his jeans at my knees and it looks like you had **** to your pants... and I'm "Fatty" you know... .... Im not too fat nor skinny at all
Its like.... ... I am a boy who is kinda tall and not skinny or fat. I have long hair. I dress in black... Listen to metal...I do like all kinds of music but I do not want to look like a "rapper" or "hip hopper" something like that....
So I usually "friend zone" with every girl...Just need to deal with it.
LALALALLAL, yeah man! I'm friend with the nerds too, they cool man. I know tons of people ranging from bouncers to Computer people, its all good! Alot of people are "shy" or whatever to be seen with ugly or smart people.. I honestly dont care, having alot of friends is great. If anyone judges you and asks u why the **** u chilling with "nerds", tell them why u find them cool and chill with them.
I only smoke Hookah, hasheesh and weed. Big no to cigarettes and cigars, they taste nasty as hell. Drinking well.... I just have a little, I don't like getting drunk.
Dewd, you dont have to be gangster or anything to get girls lol. Just stay well groomed.. you can have long hair just maintain it, clean and sexy. Girls barely care about ur shape, I got a bit of a belly. But Ima join gym soon.. get in shape so its all good :D
-LOLLOLOL im acting like a dating guru-
@Freddy when u see a girl you like make sure you emphasize on the fact that you want to be more than friends from the first couple of days u meet her. Compliment how she looks, etc. I also had the same problem.. I couldnt get past that friend barrier. But I just went straight up and told them I liked them, some were like "wtf we just met blah blah", then I just give back some cheesy **** like "love at first sight" followed by a joke and then change the subject. This makes them know that you want to be more than friends.
edit: @ Jhoij
"Dante: The way you were talking just completely pissed me off. Not because you think you're right, but because you're a prick.
And I didn't say you were wrong. I already said that yes, some girls can't help themselves and fall for the ******* of the year (ie you), but the sensible girls don't go for "the playas"."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfeys7Jfnx8